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Saturday, September 18, 2010

So here's what happened

Last Monday (right, Labor Day) I got up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom and my water broke. I knew that meant to get ready because once you're water breaks, you're having babies. Its not like going into premature labor where they can try to stop it.  If you'll recall, my doctor had told me that I had to make it until Tuesday to be able to deliver at our home hospital. So Monday morning saw us sitting at 33 weeks and 6 days instead of the required 34 weeks. I thought sure they'd let us stay. It was just a matter of a few hours right? Wrong.

I was transported 3 and 1/2 hours by ambulance to UAB hospital in Birmingham. The ambulance ride actually wasn't that bad. When I had been hooked up to the monitors at the hospital, they showed that I was having contractions but I wasn't feeling anything. The babies were tolerating the contractions VERY well and they didn't expect us to have any trouble getting to Birmingham. And we didn't. When we got there and got checked in, the nurses hooked me up to the monitors again which were showing contractions again. But I still couldn't feel them. The doctors decided to give me a shot of Demerol to try to slow or stop the contractions until after midnight, when they wanted to induce labor. I couldn't really understand why they wanted to slow or stop labor for 12 hours and then induce me but again, it was all about making it to midnight so that we'd be at 34 weeks.
I talked the doctors into waiting until the next morning to induce me. I had only slept 4 hours Sunday night and by Monday night I was exhausted. Sometime during all this, I got 2 steroid shots which were supposed to help the babies' lungs to develop. Anyway, Tuesday morning at 6am, I got hooked up to Pitocin and the real laboring began. Around 11am (and after having made VERY little progress), I finally gave in and decided to go ahead and get the epidural. The babies were tolerating the labor very well but their Mommy was not. What I really wanted to do was get up and walk around but that's pretty difficult with 3 monitors and an IV and a blood pressure cuff. So I got the epidural but it took them an hour to put it in. Its not supposed to take that long and from the conversation between the doctors, I take it that there is something atypical about my spine.

Anyway, I'm being induced and having some visitors. My mom and Steve's mom were there. People kept thinking it should be going faster than it was. Finally, about 8:00pm, the doctors decided that I was about 8 cm dilated and that it shouldn't be too much longer. They set up a tray to take to the OR with us and at about 10:30 the OR people came to take that tray because everyone thought it wouldn't be much longer. As it started to get later, I started to be able to feel the contractions more and more and I began to worry that the girls would have different birthdays. Everyone was fooled though because neither girl was even born that day! At around 4:00am Wednesday morning, I began to feel like I really needed to push and the doctor decided it was time. We made the move to the operating room (which is an awful place to birth) and got all set up. Amelia Eleanor was born at 4:31am and followed VERY quickly by her sister at 4:37. Claire Elizabeth did not want to wait and came screaming out after about 4 pushes.
                                                                     Amelia Bedelia
Claire Bear

The girls are doing great and only had to stay in the NICU for a few hours. After that, they were transferred to the Continuing Care Nursery for 8 days and then we came home! Having two babies in the CCN for that long was hard but there were lots of other families there that had it worse. Our girls basically just needed to grow a little bit and show the doctors that they were eating and gaining weight.

I, unfortunately, was the one with all of the trouble. Because of the botched epidural, I got a spinal headache that lasted for 4 days before having a Blood Patch. That's where they take blood out of your arm and inject it into the epidural space. It made all the difference in the world though and I was able to finally get up and around and care for my girlies. I would not wish that spinal headache on anyone though. It was 4 days of misery. All you can do is lay flat in a darkened room. One day, I spent the day laying in bed crying all day and when the doctor finally came, he said I wasn't in "enough pain for it to be a true spinal headache." Showed him when that blood patch fixed me right up.

My mother-in-law used to work in the NICU at UAB so she still knew a lot of the nurses and got to catch up with them. My mom works in the OR at UAB and so she was able to come visit us really often while she was on breaks. My sister-in-law just started working at UAB last week and so she was able to come over after work too. Wonderfully, we had lots of visitors and people to admire our precious girls. Despite all that, it is still good to have them home and not have to worry about all the monitors and noises. Both girls have a head full of dark hair and we could not be more delighted with them!

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

One Week Ago

One week ago, this happened-

This has been the best, hardest week! Going home tomorrow!!!!!

Thursday, September 2, 2010

33 weeks, 2 days and all is well

Our appointment today went really well. Baby A is 4 pounds 10 ounces and Baby B is 4 pounds 14 ounces. And that people, is 9.5 pounds of baby. I don't have to go back for 2 more weeks and the doctor said he's not really expecting anything to happen in the meantime. I'm about 1 cm dilated which means absolutely nothing. Also, my belly is measuring in at 42 weeks. If I was having one baby, my belly is the size it would be if I was 2 weeks overdue. So, big. The doc says that as long as I make it to next Tuesday, we're home-free. I can have the babies here at my hospital with my doctor. Also both babies are head-down so they should hopefully stay that way which means hopefully no c-section!

We're going to the beach this weekend! Actually, I doubt I'll put foot to sand but it should be an interesting trip. My grandma (mom's mom) takes all of us to the beach every year for Labor Day. I haven't been able to go for several years because we've been living in Texas so this will be my first time seeing a lot of my family members in a while. Two of my cousins have kids I haven't met yet and two of my cousins have husbands I haven't met yet. I don't know how long we'll stay- probably only one night but we're playing it by ear.

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Beyonce Beyonce

No that's not what I'm naming my daughters!

I am so incredibly naive when it comes to song lyrics. Just now, a friend was saying (on Facebook) how she's making her last trip to Texas as a single lady and so I was commenting back with lyrics from that Beyonce song "All the Single Ladies." Anyway, I needed to look up the lyrics online to make sure I got them right, didn't want to embarrass myself. And I had them SO wrong. And that happens to me ALL the time.

At least usually though I know I don't have the lyrics quite right. But I have been singing along to Single Ladies for what? Over a year now? Wrong the whole time.

In other news, I colored my own hair today. Its the kind where you do the all-over color and then go back and add the highlights. I think it looks really good except that on one of the highlights, I didn't get the stuff close enough to the roots so it looks a little weird. I'm hoping it looks more normal tomorrow after I wash it.  I live an exciting life.

Tomorrow I have an appointment for a check-up and a growth ultrasound. We'll see how much these little girls weigh and make sure they're growing like they should be. So tune in tomorrow for all that info. Also for my 33 week picture. Couldn't take one today because of the afore-mentioned unwashed hair.

Friday, August 27, 2010

Thank you!

I would like to kiss the person who invented Tums. And they're tasty too which I think is an added bonus.

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

I look ridiculous.

So here I am at 32 weeks:

I don't even look like a real person anymore. I look like I have stuffed a huge pillow under my shirt and am pretending to be pregnant. But everyone knows I'm really not because you can't get THAT big. Right? It looks like there's no way I should still be standing up.

My sweet husband brought me flowers today. Because, as he said, "Its hard being pregnant." It is.

Our rocking chair for the nursery came yesterday. Everything is finally here. You know, except the babies.

I almost made Steve take me to the hospital last night. I dreamed that my water broke and when I woke up I thought it was real. Then I finally figured out that my water couldn't have broken because I wasn't wet. Nice.

Thursday, August 19, 2010

31 weeks +2 days

We are all healthy but at least one of us is very uncomfortable! The doctor said that the babies look great and they are both head-down!!! Hopefully that will keep us out of c-section land but we'll see. I couldn't remember how much I weighed last time and I forgot to ask so I'm not sure how much weight I gained. Not much I don't think. The girls are getting big. They are gaining up to a half a pound per week at this point. Which makes for chunky babies! I'm hoping for 6 pounds each when they're born but that means carrying around 12 pounds of baby until then.

Today I went to the store after my doctor's appt. and a lady walking past me said "You look like you're ready to have that baby!" I just smiled and said "Any day now" and kept walking. White lies...

This is what I look like today. As my doctor says "You are 31 weeks with twins. That's very pregnant."